Greetings from California! I am 41, 5'8" tall and I have long, curly reddish-brunette hair and blue eyes....(lots of pics available). I am told my eyes are one of my best features. I am looking on this site to make new friends of like mind and to experience new intimate pleasures along the way. I am a sensual adventurer who is blessed with a curvy luscious figure... at the moment, padded a little extra. For excercise, I enjoy belly dancing, Tae Kwon Do, and lovely hikes in nature, wont you join me for a hike sometime? I am bright free spirit who is intelligent, honest and I have a very eclectic sense of humor. You've got to have laughter on a daily basis to truely enjoy life! : ) I am very down to earth, easy to talk to and open to meeting people who are the same. I don't believe in drama and wish the same for, and from, my friends. I am strong of heart, and sensitive by nature so I like to surround myself with people who are loving and kind, as well as adventurous and open minded. I am a very passionate, attentive, vocal, respective, adventurous, open-minded, giving lover, and look for the same in my partner. That is why we are here, no? If we were to meet and find that chemistry leads to intimacy, safe sex would be a must. I am a lover of nature, and enjoy many outdoor activities which include camping , rockhounding,(Huge gem and mineral freak!) swimming, boating, gardening, horsebackriding, hiking, Outdoor Art festivals, stargazing (the winter night sky is my favorite!!), drives on cool mountain roads, gazing at storm clouds and absorbing the beauty of nature. I also enjoy many indoor activities as well, which include movies, cooking, dancing, fun club scenes, quiet evenings cuddling and sitting by the fire with that special someone, to name just a few.... I love to (and have) traveled much. I participate at Renaissance Faires(English Wench)...... Let's get aquainted and I will tell you more...I'm in California, San Jose , and would like to meet people in the general area.

My Ideal Person I am looking to make new male friends, (single's are most welcome, NO married or attached men please), between the ages of 34 and 48 (who can entertain at their home), for a no-strings fun, loving, mutually satisfying sexual friendship.

*The physical aspect is important, but the mental chemistry is where true sexual attraction begins....*

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If you have nice hair(I LOVE longer hair) and blue/green or deep passionate eyes... show me!
I find goatee's an extremely attractive feature! You don't have to be totally fit,(a little extra padding is quite nice and very comfy to cuddle!) but active and a healthy shape is most desired.
Passionate stamina is a womans best friend... not diamonds! ; )

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A very valuable trait is the ability to communicate!... Friends I enjoy can discuss feelings and emotions and not keep you guessing. They are real, respectful and considerate of other people and their desires.

I am attracted to men who have a healthy, active, sexual nature~(understanding the importance of grooming and hygene)~ and makes time to enjoy the things in life that compell us to come back for more! Someone who is worldly, and comfortable in life. A man who is FUN and down to earth.

I seek an artiste of the divine kiss.....One who can feel the intensity of the chemistry that fuels the sensual kiss.... I feel the kiss is one of the most erotic moments two people can share.

"Enjoy a giving woman and treat her like a goddess as the rewards are greater than you can possibly imagine..."

If you are a parent, that is an extra plus!
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Stuck up people are NO fun, so please be open minded, loving and respectful of others. ( Like ME!)
Flakey people can stay in FlakeyTown! Pleeeaaase!

I wish you peace, love and light on your path to passionate adventures!!

Hugs from BustyBella

"I'm running I'm running , catch up with me life... where's the love I'm lookin to find??"
Life isn't measured by the breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Evanesence, Matchbox 20, Morrisey, Pink Floyd, Coldplay, BlackEyed
Peas, Greatful Dead, Corky&Juice

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The middle of a park, In my Garb at the Ren Faire

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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