I'm a very kinky well-educated, well-travelled 54 year old man. I enjoy good food, good wine and good exercise, not necessarily in that order. I'm also dominant and have some deeper darker desires but those will come out if we chat ...
I'm a 'serious' dominant in the sense that I know I need it. On the other hand I realize that limits and practice are things that need to be worked out in the context of a relationship and that each of those is different. For me a relationship like that is in many ways shaped by the partner's desires, and that requires a bit of exploration. Like I say that doesn't mean I'm not looking for a strong woman, but in my experience the submissive in a sexual relationship has often given a lot of thought to her desires and takes immense pleasure from her sexual submission. Being dominant means directing a woman as she pleasures me and knowing that she takes pleasure in it. But it also involves specific sexual practice - everything from the visual (I love lingerie on a woman and having her slowly expose it to me), the physical (some bondage, some spanking, some hair pulling, some toys, and more ... this is something that's worked out between two people), some verbal (the eroticism of the voice and the mind is intense). Happy to tell you more if you're interested, but what really excites me in this is not so much my own sexual gratification as it is taking intense pleasure from being able to help a woman satisfy her own sexual desires.
I enjoy women who have come to understand their sexuality and have engaged in a process of reflection so that they know why they are willing to give themselves. I believe that each relationship between is unique and built on expressing and understanding what each other need on their journey of self-discovery.
I also play well with couples, whether that's a nice game of seduction and play or cuckolding a husband. I have experience directing couples in their play and particularly enjoy supervising submissive couples who seek to act on their need to be dominated, or to realize a power exchange with each other.
My Ideal Person A strong, playful, intelligent, woman who knows her desires well and seeks to experience a variety of kink. Also, couples who enjoy the addition of a third; submissive couples that require supervision; and women seeking to cuckold their husband.
What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, A remote wilderness spot, My desk at work, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, Anywhere
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Fisting, Massage
What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level
Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
No
Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.